f you are not having fun your doing something wrong!!! Les Baldwin

1. Know the Rules

Inside and out, that is. Of particular importance to new referees are the correct restarts for given situations. Nothing can help to keep coaches and players off your back better than demonstrating a thorough knowledge of the LOTG and their application. Knowing the rules intimately is a given for many list participants by virtue of their high-level officiating assignments, but many who dabble in officiating really need to be sure to keep up on the LOTG.

2.Stay on Top of (follow) the Play

One can easily invite arguments and grief by making (or missing)calls when not close to the play. Work hard to stay with play and you'll call a better game.

3.Act like your Human

This is a big one. There are still some of the "I'm the boss and that's the way it's going to be so don't even try to talk to me" referees out there, but if you don't act infallible you'll be more credible to coaches and players.

4. Arrive Early to the Game Site

Don't come flying in on two wheels when the starting whistle should be blown.

5. Be Prepared

Keep extra whistles, socks, shoes, etc. in case something rips, breaks or if you need an alternate jersey.

6.Look Sharp, Act like a Professional

Even if you don't do this for a living, look and act like a professional. It helps gain respect and helps you have pride in your work.

7.Learn from Other Referees

Talking with other referees(or for that matter, being assessed) is a great way to learn about the game.

8.Stay in Game Shape

This may seem to be inextricably linked with number two above, but some referees are in good physical shape and don't go anywhere near the play.Even U12s can make you hustle, so keep your body ready. If you don't get a good workout doing a game, you're probably doing your job effectively( or the game is entirely one-sided)

9.Read, Study, Attend Seminars, Watch and Learn

Read about refereeing and watch as many games as possible. This includes games done by peer referees, TV games,etc. While watching high-level games, anticipate the calls and compare what you'd call with what high-level referees call (or don't call)

10.Don't get Emotionally Involved with the Game

I believe that seeing a referee lose his or her temper is a sign that he or she is losing control of the match. Remember that the foul is nothing personal to you, so don't get mad....just officiate the match.

Two additional items that truly need more emphasis during referee training:

11.Don't be to Quick with the Whistle

Many a good advantage possibility disappears with a referee's quick whistle. As you get better you learn to slow the whistle down and think about the situation.

12.Don't do Two-Handed Signals

This is a problem with many, many referees...even some professionals; it confuses everyone on the field. You're not a windmill or scarecrow, so don't have two hands out in two directions at one time. Clearly indicate direction for the FK, then show the spot of ball placement is what you need to do.